Where should I get my tattoo?

Go to FAT Ink. It's amazing. I just recently had my nose pierced there and the guy who did it was SUPER nice and sweet. I highly recommend it. I don't have any tattoos, however I do have friends who have tattoos. Your shoulder would be a good place, however if you don't want it to show when you wear your dresses or gowns, that may not be the best place. If you want, the top of your wrist is a good place (not the bottom part of the wrist below the palm of your hand because one of your main veins is located there and that could be risky). It is going to hurt, but that's with anything that has to do with a needle in your skin. As for treating the area after you get it done, I'm sure the person who does the tattoo will tell you instructions on that.