Guys: would you text and talk to a girl basically nonstop if you were just using her?

maybe, if he's bored. if you read 'the rules' it will help you a lot, it really sets out a clear understanding of who really likes you and who is just 'ok' with you or using you. i'm 18 and it made everything so clear to me that i always feel in control of what's happening, and the people i date comment on how stable and mature i am compared to their exes (and i usually date around 5 years older). seriously just read it and it will help you with this guy, plus whoever you date in the future.